\u0130nsanlar neden trafik kurallar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nemsemiyor?<\/p>\n
Her g\u00fcn ayn\u0131 caddelerde, ayn\u0131 kav\u015faklarda, ayn\u0131 yollarda birbirimizin hayat\u0131na dokunuyoruz. Ayn\u0131 il\u00e7ede ya\u015f\u0131yor, ayn\u0131 sokaklardan ge\u00e7iyor, ayn\u0131 kald\u0131r\u0131mlar\u0131 kullan\u0131yor, ayn\u0131 \u0131\u015f\u0131klarda bekliyoruz.<\/p>\n
Ama nedense kurallar s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011funda hepimizin kendisine g\u00f6re bir hesab\u0131 var.<\/p>\n
K\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 \u0131\u015f\u0131kta beklemek birka\u00e7 saniye s\u00fcr\u00fcyor diye ge\u00e7iyoruz.<\/p>\n
Yaya ge\u00e7idinde durmam\u0131z gerekirken h\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kesmiyoruz.<\/p>\n
Park edilmemesi gereken yere arac\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ift s\u0131ra park ediyor, yolu daralt\u0131yor, sonra da \u201cNe olacak ki?\u201d diyoruz.<\/p>\n
Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 ayn\u0131 \u015feyi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ise \u00f6fkeleniyoruz.<\/p>\n
\u0130\u015fte as\u0131l mesele tam da burada ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
Kendine yap\u0131lan kurals\u0131z davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 k\u0131nayan insano\u011flu neden ba\u015fka insanlar\u0131n yad\u0131rgad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bizzat kendisi yap\u0131yor?<\/strong><\/p>\n Bunu hepimizin kendisine sormas\u0131 gerekiyor.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f, yanl\u0131\u015f da bizim yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z neden \u201cmecburiyet\u201d oluyor?<\/p>\n Biz ge\u00e7 kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 \u0131\u015f\u0131kta ge\u00e7mek neden normal?<\/p>\n Bizim i\u015fimiz acil oldu\u011funda kald\u0131r\u0131ma ara\u00e7 b\u0131rakmak neden kabul edilebilir?<\/p>\n Bizim acelemiz oldu\u011funda \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczdeki arac\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak neden mazur g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir?<\/p>\n Ama ayn\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f bize yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda neden bir anda adalet, sayg\u0131 ve insanl\u0131k akl\u0131m\u0131za geliyor?<\/p>\n Belki de problem trafik kurallar\u0131nda de\u011fil.<\/p>\n Problem, kurallar\u0131 yaln\u0131zca ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n uymas\u0131 gereken \u015feyler olarak g\u00f6rmemizde.<\/strong><\/p>\n G\u00fcroymak k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir yer.<\/p>\n Birbirimizi tan\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n Kimin hangi mahallede ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, hangi arac\u0131n kime ait oldu\u011funu, kimin nerede \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman biliyoruz.<\/p>\n Buna ra\u011fmen trafikte birbirimize kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimiz sab\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k, tahamm\u00fcls\u00fczl\u00fck ve sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k bazen \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 boyutlara ula\u015fabiliyor.<\/p>\n Birbirimizi tan\u0131yor olmak, birbirimizin hakk\u0131na sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermemizi gerektirmez mi?<\/p>\n Bir il\u00e7ede ya\u015faman\u0131n en g\u00fczel taraflar\u0131ndan biri insanlar\u0131n birbirine yak\u0131n olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Ama bu yak\u0131nl\u0131k, \u201cNas\u0131l olsa birbirimizi tan\u0131yoruz.\u201d rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde kurallar\u0131n anlam\u0131 kayboluyor.<\/p>\n Tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z birinin \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7iyoruz.<\/p>\n Tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z birinin \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ildi\u011finde ise tepki g\u00f6steriyoruz.<\/p>\n Kendi arac\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 istedi\u011fimiz yere b\u0131rak\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n arac\u0131 yolumuzu kapatt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sinirleniyoruz.<\/p>\n Kendi hatam\u0131za mazeret buluyoruz.<\/p>\n Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hatas\u0131na ise h\u00fck\u00fcm veriyoruz.<\/p>\n Oysa adalet, insan\u0131n kendisine uygulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcyle ba\u015fkas\u0131na uygulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcn\u00fcn ayn\u0131 olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Bir insan\u0131n nas\u0131l biri oldu\u011funu anlamak i\u00e7in bazen uzun uzun konu\u015fmas\u0131na gerek yoktur.<\/p>\n Direksiyon ba\u015f\u0131ndaki davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na bakmak yeterlidir.<\/p>\n Sab\u0131rl\u0131 m\u0131?<\/p>\n Tahamm\u00fcll\u00fc m\u00fc?<\/p>\n Yayaya sayg\u0131l\u0131 m\u0131?<\/p>\n Ya\u015fl\u0131 bir insan kar\u015f\u0131dan kar\u015f\u0131ya ge\u00e7erken bekleyebiliyor mu?<\/p>\n Ambulans geldi\u011finde yol a\u00e7abiliyor mu?<\/p>\n Kendisinden \u00f6nce ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hakk\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebiliyor mu?<\/p>\n Bunlar yaln\u0131zca trafik davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n Bunlar insan\u0131n karakterinden izler ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc trafik, insanlar\u0131n birbirine kar\u015f\u0131 ger\u00e7ek tavr\u0131n\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131karan alanlardan biridir.<\/p>\n Kimse bizi tan\u0131m\u0131yor olabilir.<\/p>\n Kimse bizi izlemiyor olabilir.<\/p>\n Polis orada olmayabilir.<\/p>\n Kamera bizi g\u00f6rm\u00fcyor olabilir.<\/p>\n Ama biz yine de do\u011fru olan\u0131 yap\u0131yorsak, i\u015fte o zaman kurala ger\u00e7ekten inan\u0131yoruz demektir.<\/p>\n Trafikte en tehlikeli c\u00fcmlelerden biri belki de \u015fudur:<\/p>\n \u201cBir \u015fey olmaz.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Oysa hayat\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck ac\u0131lar\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman insanlar\u0131n \u201cbir \u015fey olmaz\u201d dedi\u011fi anlarda ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor.<\/p>\n Bir saniyelik dikkatsizlik\u2026<\/p>\n Biraz fazla h\u0131z\u2026<\/p>\n Bir k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 \u0131\u015f\u0131k\u2026<\/p>\n Bir telefon g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi\u2026<\/p>\n Bir mesaj\u2026<\/p>\n Bir hatal\u0131 sollama\u2026<\/p>\n Bir \u201cben ge\u00e7erim\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi\u2026<\/p>\n Sonra hayat\u0131n geri kalan\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiren bir kaza.<\/p>\n O noktadan sonra ne zaman\u0131n, ne acele etmenin, ne de \u201cbir \u015fey olmaz\u201d demenin hi\u00e7bir anlam\u0131 kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc trafikte yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her hata yaln\u0131zca bizi ilgilendirmiyor.<\/p>\n Kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki insan\u0131n hayat\u0131na da dokunuyor.<\/p>\n Daha fazla ceza m\u0131?<\/p>\n Daha fazla trafik polisi mi?<\/p>\n Daha fazla kamera m\u0131?<\/p>\n Daha fazla denetim mi?<\/p>\n Elbette denetim olmal\u0131.<\/p>\n Kurallar uygulanmal\u0131.<\/p>\n Gerekti\u011finde cezalar kesilmeli.<\/p>\n Fakat hi\u00e7bir polis memuru insan\u0131n vicdan\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda n\u00f6bet tutamaz.<\/p>\n Hi\u00e7bir kamera insan\u0131n zihninin i\u00e7ine yerle\u015ftirilemez.<\/p>\n As\u0131l denetim insan\u0131n kendi i\u00e7erisinde ba\u015flamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kurallar\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerde de\u011fil, kurallar\u0131n oldu\u011fu halde uygulanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerde toplum d\u00fczeni bozulur.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ve bir toplumun d\u00fczeni, yaln\u0131zca devletin koydu\u011fu kurallarla de\u011fil, insanlar\u0131n o kurallara g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi sayg\u0131yla ayakta kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n Belki de art\u0131k ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 su\u00e7lamadan \u00f6nce kendimize bakman\u0131n zaman\u0131 gelmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n \u201cG\u00fcroymak’ta insanlar neden b\u00f6yle?\u201d<\/p>\n demeden \u00f6nce,<\/p>\n \u201cBen nas\u0131l\u0131m?\u201d<\/p>\n diye sormam\u0131z gerekiyor.<\/p>\n \u201cKimse trafik kurallar\u0131na uymuyor.\u201d<\/p>\n demeden \u00f6nce,<\/p>\n \u201cBen uyuyor muyum?\u201d<\/p>\n diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeliyiz.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc toplum dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey, bizden ayr\u0131 bir \u015fey de\u011fil.<\/p>\n Toplum biziz.<\/strong><\/p>\n Trafikte g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz s\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc de biziz.<\/p>\n Yaya da biziz.<\/p>\n Kural\u0131 ihlal eden de biziz.<\/p>\n Kural ihlal edildi\u011finde \u015fik\u00e2yet eden de biziz.<\/p>\n Bu nedenle de\u011fi\u015fmesini istedi\u011fimiz \u015feyi \u00f6nce kendimizde de\u011fi\u015ftirmeden ba\u015fkas\u0131ndan beklemek, sadece beklemekten ibarettir.<\/p>\n Trafik kurallar\u0131 yaln\u0131zca ara\u00e7lar\u0131n nas\u0131l hareket edece\u011fini belirlemek i\u00e7in konulmad\u0131.<\/p>\n Asl\u0131nda bize birbirimize nas\u0131l davranmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini de hat\u0131rlat\u0131yor.<\/p>\n Birbirimizin hakk\u0131na sayg\u0131 duymay\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n Birbirimizin hayat\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nemsemeyi\u2026<\/p>\n Birbirimizin zaman\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7almamay\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n Ve en \u00f6nemlisi, kendimize yap\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 istemedi\u011fimiz bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 ba\u015fkas\u0131na yapmamay\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek s\u0131nav\u0131, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6rmek de\u011fil; ayn\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n kendisi i\u00e7in de m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011fu anda onu yapmamakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n Kendine yap\u0131lan kurals\u0131z davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 k\u0131nayan insano\u011flu neden ba\u015fka insanlar\u0131n yad\u0131rgad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bizzat kendisi yap\u0131yor?<\/strong><\/p>\n Belki de bu sorunun cevab\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131nda de\u011fil, aynada aramal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen \u015fik\u00e2yet etti\u011fimiz trafik, asl\u0131nda i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz toplumun k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir aynas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Ve o aynada g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz \u015fey ho\u015fumuza gitmiyorsa, de\u011fi\u015ftirmemiz gereken ilk ki\u015fi kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki de\u011fil, kendimiziz.<\/p>\n G\u00fcroymak Haber \u2013 Edit\u00f6r\u00fcn Yaz\u0131s\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u0130nsanlar neden trafik kurallar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nemsemiyor? Her g\u00fcn ayn\u0131 caddelerde, ayn\u0131 kav\u015faklarda, ayn\u0131 yollarda birbirimizin hayat\u0131na dokunuyoruz. Ayn\u0131 il\u00e7ede ya\u015f\u0131yor, ayn\u0131 sokaklardan ge\u00e7iyor, ayn\u0131 kald\u0131r\u0131mlar\u0131 kullan\u0131yor, ayn\u0131 \u0131\u015f\u0131klarda bekliyoruz. Ama nedense kurallar s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011funda hepimizin kendisine g\u00f6re bir hesab\u0131 var. K\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 \u0131\u015f\u0131kta beklemek birka\u00e7 saniye s\u00fcr\u00fcyor diye ge\u00e7iyoruz. Yaya ge\u00e7idinde durmam\u0131z gerekirken h\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kesmiyoruz. Park […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":226,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_review":[],"enable_review":"","type":"","name":"","summary":"","brand":"","sku":"","good":[],"bad":[],"score_override":"","override_value":"","rating":[],"price":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"jnews_post_split":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-231","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guroymak-haber-editorun-hazirladiklari"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xn--groymakhaber-dlb.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/231","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xn--groymakhaber-dlb.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xn--groymakhaber-dlb.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xn--groymakhaber-dlb.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xn--groymakhaber-dlb.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=231"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.xn--groymakhaber-dlb.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/231\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":232,"href":"https:\/\/www.xn--groymakhaber-dlb.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/231\/revisions\/232"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xn--groymakhaber-dlb.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/226"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xn--groymakhaber-dlb.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=231"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xn--groymakhaber-dlb.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=231"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xn--groymakhaber-dlb.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=231"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}G\u00fcroymak’ta hepimiz birbirimizi tan\u0131yoruz<\/h3>\n
Trafikte direksiyonun ba\u015f\u0131nda asl\u0131nda kendimizi g\u00f6steriyoruz<\/h3>\n
\u201cBir \u015fey olmaz\u201d dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey, bir g\u00fcn her \u015fey olabilir<\/h3>\n
Peki biz neyi bekliyoruz?<\/h3>\n
\u00d6nce kendimize bakal\u0131m<\/h3>\n
Son s\u00f6z<\/h3>\n